I hear women all the time expressing how their partners just don’t understand how much they have to deal with. Meanwhile, their partners insist that they DO in fact see the things they have to do. They go round and … Continue reading
Category Archives: Relationship Counseling
Cheating’s Lasting Effects
Cheating can do a number on a relationship, but it can really do a number on the one who has been betrayed. The problem is that the effects can last long after the dysfunctional relationship has resolved. I get many … Continue reading
Part 2: So, I Think I’m Codependent…Now What?
Codependency is a situation in which you rely excessively upon a relationship to meet your needs. After recognizing the signs of codependency, it is time to make changes in your life. These changes include letting go of negative thoughts and … Continue reading
Part 1: Codependency: What is it and how can I tell if is ruining my relationships?
When a relationship is in balance, it can be a source of strength and comfort. Sometimes, however, relationships become unbalanced, causing one person to depend very heavily on the relationship to meet their emotional needs. Falling into this pattern, known … Continue reading
Is Your Relationship Bringing You More Pain Than Happiness?
You never thought your relationship would end up like this: you going to bed alone (again), and him staying up late to watch TV, play video games or just surf the internet. The passion is gone. Heck, even the like … Continue reading
How Do I Deal With a Big Life Change?
As a counselor, I am regularly asked by some of my clients what it takes to deal with a big life change. What do I mean by big? Here’s a brief list: Job Change Divorce or Breakup Child Leaving For … Continue reading
Toxic Relationships 101
No matter what your age, how much money you make, or how bright, independent or attractive you may be, no one is immune to finding oneself in a toxic relationship. In an ideal world, the warning signs would be evident from … Continue reading